ABOUT US
Welcome to Tea Spillers and thank you for your support. Our mission is to empower individuals by uncovering the truth behind relationships in a world where online dating often lacks accountability. Through thorough and confidential background checks, we provide the knowledge needed to make informed, safe decisions. We are committed to protecting our clients' well-being by exposing hidden risks, fostering a sense of security, and promoting transparency, ensuring everyone can date with confidence and peace of mind.
With over a decade of investigative experience, I’ve sharpened my skills in uncovering the truth and ensuring safety. My professional journey took a deeply personal turn after 20 years of marriage when I discovered there was another woman. Initially, my company focused on assisting attorneys in child welfare cases, not relationships. I married young and naive, trusting the wrong person, and never thought I needed to investigate my own relationship. Like many, I wanted to believe my relationship was secure and couldn't imagine such a betrayal. The pain from that experience led to a divorce and a new chapter in my life—navigating the intricate world of online dating in my 40s.
During this time, I encountered numerous situations where the men I met were either married or posed safety risks. Fortunately, my background in investigations equipped me with the tools I needed to protect myself. However, I quickly realized that many women, especially those new to online dating, did not have access to the same resources or expertise.
As a man, my partner never gave much thought to situations like running or getting gas alone at night. These were routine activities that he approached without concern. However, when he found himself navigating the dating world again after his divorce, he began to see things differently. Through meaningful connections and conversations over the past several years, he gained a deeper understanding of the unique challenges and dangers that women often face in society. He began to see online dating as a place that lacks transparency and accountability. Where in the past having friends in common helped to add that element of safety. This new perspective profoundly shaped his approach to relationships and safety.
The realization of the need for people to be able to protect themselves in the online dating world sparked the creation of Tea Spillers. My partner and I founded this firm to empower people by providing them with the investigative support they need to make informed and safe decisions in the world of online dating. We want to ensure that no one has to face the hidden risks of dating behind a screen without the tools to protect themselves from those who may conceal their true identities.
Let us use our expertise to help you find the truth and keep you safe as you navigate your own journey.
Aurora Farthing, TX
Background Check Client
"She's incredibly transparent. She's very upfront about what's legally acceptable and not legally acceptable. I completely trust that what she's giving me is valid and accurate."
Rob Galvin, TX
Family Law Attorney
"Tarah presents as an extremely competent and credible person. You can believe what she says, you know she's not going to try to shortcut things."
Amber Murken, TX
Background Check Client
"She makes it a low stress process in a very stressful time. It's calming. I give her a box full of the puzzle pieces and she comes back with a completed puzzle."